The following quote was sent to me from a best friend this weekend:
“Spiritual battlefield.
We need to prepare ourselves daily to know the Word and speak the Word when the enemy is trying to bring us down when we are up! We must use Gods word to fight against that. We are not perfect. We have to be able to forgive ourselves and others because otherwise God won’t be able to fully use us for His glory.”
I did a lot of praying over the weekend.
I prayed for others and I prayed for myself.
I also doubted myself this weekend – in more ways than one.
My confidence plummeted and I questioned a lot of things about myself.
But, through prayer, I was able to over come this.
No, I’m not perfect, but I’m doing what I enjoy. I’m trying my best, being the best I can be, and definitely learning more and more every day.
I’m in a very good place in my life right now. I wake up with a positive outlook on life, everything it has to offer, and am truly excited for everything that comes my way.
Since I am in such a good place right now, I don’t need others bringing me down, I don’t deserve it. No one deserves it.
Therefore, I will continue to focus on me which means being positive, excited for life, doing what I enjoy and what keeps me happy because that leads to me being the best me I can be.
On the weekend I announced that I squatted 185 lbs. for six reps. I was very excited about my accomplishment, but the news I shared resulted in much rage within many people and throughout the blog world and, for that, I am sorry.
I am sorry for the frustration I caused you.
I do not like being called a “liar”, because I am not. To clarify, when I squat I do not squat “ass to the grass”. Instead, I squat just below parallel. This is the form my personal trainer has me perform, it makes me happy, so I will continue doing squats my way.
We all have a choice of how we want to train. The way I train makes me happy, but if it’s not your style then ignore it, move on, and do what you love.
I know by having a blog I am putting myself out there for the world to see, but it’s not fair to call someone a “liar” or tell me that I have “chicken legs”.
I wouldn’t say anything nasty about you, so please don’t say anything nasty about me.
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People can be disgusting. I am so sorry those hurtful things were said to you. Those people have work to do on themselves if they feel the need to put others down. You are amazing and continue to feel proud of your accomplishments. You deserve it!
Thanks Steph!! <3
Girl thats an awesome accomplishment…usually when people put others down its because they are not happy with themself! You rock it girl!
Thanks Nelly! <3
I’m so sorry someone or some people said that to you. You should be so incredibly proud of yourself and don’t let anyone bring you down! I don’t know know you, but I always read your blog and you seem like a wonderful, smart, sincere, dedicated, and just an amazon person. Whoever said those things was extremely bored with their life and/or really jealous. You are AWESOME and never forget that!
Thank you so much!!
I am so so sorry you had to deal with that! You are an amazing woman and inspire me everyday! You motivate everyone and should never have to deal with that! That person is just jealous of how badass you are in the gym!
Thanks Heather <3
Anyone attacking you is heartless, jealous, and simple minded. You are so sweet, genuine, and brave to open yourself up to the world – just know there are thousands of people on your side for any one person who is against you!
Thanks Claire, I don’t know you personally, but just know that I love you
Meg – your approach is great. And what they said – is disgusting and a sign of envy – envy and hate are things which should not exist in this world. I really can not understand why people would read a blog if they don’t like the person or what they read. They could just click away and forget it right? What is the purpose to leave a nasty comment and bring someone down? I really don’t get it and can only feel sorry for people who feel good by beating someone else down. In this post I see that you are strong about it and that you don’t let anyone bring you down. Keep it up the great work, you are amazing!!
Lucie, you are amazing! Thank you
People never cease to amaze me. I love watching your journey change even if I never comment. Keep up the great work lady – you do you and be the best you that you can be!
Thanks Molly
I think you are absolutely amazing and I am incredibly proud of you!!! You keep rocking everything you do…especially those squats DOLL!!! One day, we shall squat together k?!
It’s a deal babe
Seriously?!? People got upset that you said you squatted 185lbs? I don’t even understand that! What’s upsetting? It was a PR for you and something you should be proud of and has nothing to do with anyone else or the way they train or lift. That’s just silly of them. You are such a positive person, Meg, keep it up and stay true to yourself!
Thanks, Katie. I really didn’t understand either or else I wouldn’t have made it public.
Oh my. Posts like this shouldn’t even be necessary. It’s so sad.
I have a feeling you peek at the GOMI boards…which is totally understandable.
The best thing you can do is reply to the criticism/concern with an honest post about how
you feel. It will do wonders for your psyche. Jenny from PB&J did it and it was great. She received tons of heartfelt support. Read the posts.
Just be honest and continue your path.
Hang in there!
Actually, Kate, I’ve never been on GOMI in my life. I found all of this info out on my own. Thank you, though.
Great post, Meg. You’re such a strong and beautiful woman, and your post is truly inspiring. Good for you for sticking up for yourself. Girl, 185 lbs!! That’s incredible and you have all the reason in the world to be proud of your accomplishments. Don’t let anyone take that away from you!
Thank you Sarah <3
Meg, you know this is YOUR blog and you can write whatever YOU want. If people don’t like it or don’t believe it, they can go elsewhere. No one is making them read about your amazing accomplishments that you want to share with the world because you are proud. You have every reason to be proud-you are an inspiration and a beautiful person who has worked extremely hard to get where you are. I, for one, LOVE hearing about your accomplishments and think that those who are jealous/insecure about their own shortcomings should take their negativity elsewhere. Love you pretty girl!
girl, don’t ever feel like you have to justify yourself on your blog. the blog is an expression of yourself. unfortunately, haters are going to hate and itz probably because they’ve unfortunately got some hate going on in their life too. just know, that the grand majority of your readers are those who support you, believe in you, and LOVE you. like me. i love you. xoxo
The only reason why people ever say things like that is because they are jealous and see you as a threat somehow. They see you doing something that they can’t yet accomplish, but instead of allowing that to inspire them, they get jealous and therefore try and make up excuses for themselves and for you as to why you can do something and they can’t. Don’t sweat it girl – no one needs people like that! Their opinions don’t matter. I only hope that whoever wrote that will come to realize their mistake and never say anything like that ever again, either to you or to anyone else!
How does someone squatting result in rage? Boggles my mind. I’m happy you were able to stay positive. You have so many people in your life that love and support you. Keep doing what you’re doing, girl. Your strength amazes me! You deserve nothing but continued progress and positivity.
Have an amazing day, Meg! xoxo
Sweetheart, I truly don’t know why this caused so much rage, but it did and I needed to say something. I wouldn’t lie about the weight I squatted. That’s just silly to me.
You are spot on – it boggles my mind, too, love.
I love you so much, Christina, and truly appreciate your comment <3 I miss you.
Meg, I want to preface this by saying that I am NOT trying to put you down or be negative here, I just want to clarify something. I think the reason that a lot of people reacted to your post the way they did is because for someone your size to be squatting 185 lb, that is Extremely advanced… Like, national record advanced. If you truly added 45s and 25s to each side of the bar, and squatted to or below parallel, than I am amazed by and proud of you. I just worry that other girls your size may think that this is the norm or that that is what they should be squatting, and that could get quite dangerous. Again, I’m not trying to put you down, I’m just putting my thoughts out there. Best of luck with your training.
I’m not sure why I would lie about something like this. I truly squatted 185 pounds for six reps when going just below parallel.
Now that I know what a ruckus posting my PR’s cause I will never do it again.
Like I said, sorry for all of the frustration I caused all serious lifters.
Just post a video
or a pic. If I PR’d and had a trainer there, I would film it!
You. Go. Girl. Fight those haters and be who you are 150% of the time. If they don’t want to hear it, they don’t need to read it and can move on. We (who truly support you) are so proud of you and your accomplishments, and I know I see your progress as inspiration and support for MYself in my physical and mental pursuits to grow.
I’m glad you’re taking a stand. That’s the feisty Meg we know and love!
BIG THINGS come in little packages, my love
Preach girl, preach!
You’re accomplishments are amazing and all yours. Nobody can take that away or make you feel otherwise.
I am sorry that someone’s ignorance has caused you to doubt yourself – I think you are a badass and I love reading about your accomplishments – dont let this lead you in the wrong direction – keep moving forward and know that you are doing this for yourself and no one else!
Just keep doing your thing. Negativity will always exist. It’s how you choose to handle it that reflects your true character.
And, for what it’s worth, I could not even lift 185 lbs off the ground. So I think “your technique” of squats is RIDICULOUSLY impressive.
xoxo
OMG! I hope I did not offend you by my comment!?!?! I THINK WHAT YOU DO IS AWESOME AND AMAZING AND YOU ARE MY INSPIRATION!!! This morning I hit the gym for a leg workout and when I hit the squat rack you were my inspiration to “GO BIG” when I looked at myself in the mirror!!! And you know what…I PR’ed!!!! I GIVE SO MUCH CREDIT TO YOU and the INSPIRATION YOU GIVE ME TO RECOVER FROM MY OWN ISSUES!!!
lol no, not you Morgan. Trust me. There was much more hate going on in the blog world.
Hi Meg,
I hope you don’t feel like this comment is an attack. I feel you need to evaluate your responsibilities as a blogger in terms of both the validity and nature of the information you post because it could be potentially dangerous for your younger or more vulnerable readers. Also, would you consider addressing the negativity in a mature and responsible manner rather then moderating and censoring such comments? I feel if you were to respond respectfully, it would show your readers that you are the bigger person and a positive role model.
Hey,
I have the choice to moderate my comments or not and, in fact, much of the hate I received wasn’t from comments on my blog.
Anyways, if I choose not to publish a rude comment it’s because I do not want negativity on my blog and like I said, that’s my choice.
I’m also addressing it in an appropriate way through this post. It’s my way of dealing with things.
Thank you.
Wow–I’m speechless, as you do not deserve to hear those types of comments. But, this post shows just how much CLASS and DIGNITY you have. Keep it up! Plus, I’ve learned through teaching, that I have to keep it in perspective: don’t let one or two negative comments interfere with remembering the countless positive comments!!
That’s what I always tell myself, too, girl! We’re so much alike! Love you
I am so sorry people were so rude to you! I think you look amazing and are working very hard at all of your accomplishments! Don’t let the negative comments bring you down, they are just jealous of your rockin bod
Thanks baby! Love u so much
Oh my goodness. I am so sorry that people are terrible. You are one of the most kind, thoughtful and hard working people I know. You deserve nothing my positivity and support. You have so much to be proud of – anyone who wants to be negative isn’t worth your time. Keep your head high and keep being you – because you’re incredible!
Congrats on all the accomplishments you have had to date and best of luck moving forward, even though you don’t need it!
xo Lauren
Thank you babe!! xoxo
There are so many ways to do squats – I just do what’s comfortable and makes me feel it.
I saw that awful comment on Twitter, and I really can’t believe someone could be that rude. I don’t think some people understand how hurtful comments like that are. Don’t think on it too much. You’re such a great person, inside and out. Keep being you!
Thank you Lindsay! I love ya
People are awful when it comes to celebrating another’s accomplishments. Because most people don’t squat to parallel they figure anytime a tiny girl does it she must be lying. Grrrrr. It makes me sad that people take time out of their day to be nasty when they could just as easily keep their mouth shut.
Chelsey, I’m so happy to get a loving comment from you. I love you. I needed this.
Other people can be so judgemental, unfortunately. It makes me sad, most of it doesn’t come from a place of compassion. And that’s something I try and avoid at all costs. If your not going to say something nice, don’t say it. We should have compassion for every person in all situations!
I happen to know you personally, and know you are truly so generous, kind, beautiful, and an amazing friend!
Loooove you xo
I love you too Lisa!
Oh my god people can be SO mean! When I read that you squatted that, I was totally excited for you and jealous! People shouldn’t be negative just because they have their own issues to deal with. I could go on a giant rant, but I wont, because I’m trying to obtain from stress
Anyways, you’re so right. Forget them.
I think people worry too much. Thanks Melissa <3 love you
I’m sorry to hear you are facing so much negativity but know that you are enough just as you are and don’t worry about what anyone else thinks! One of my favorite sayings is “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent”. Stay strong girl and know you are fabulous!
Thanks babe. I love you so much
Wow, what is wrong with some people? I’m sorry that you had to experience negative backlash from something you were so proud of. People scan judge others so quickly, yet often times do not censor their own thoughts or sayings. Your squat accomplishment is HUGE & you should be able to shout it from the rooftops if you want to!
Thanks Katie! I thought I should be able to too
6 reps is a lot! What is your squat 1 Rep Max?
I’ve never done 1 rep max’s
I love you, sis, and KNOW that you’re not only honest, but that you have the biggest heart in the world. I’m so sorry that you have to respond to these hurtful and unfounded words; you don’t deserve it, and neither does anyone else. It breaks my heart that people feel inclined to make accusations about others–especially when they don’t know that person. Stay strong and keep doing what you love! You are an inspiration to me, and to others, and you’re living out your dream! Keep going after it, girl. LOVE YOU <3 xoxoxo
What is wrong with squat of 185lbs? That is possible with smith machine – when the bar itself weights 45lbs and you add two few plates. I am not as strong as meg but I can do about 80 lbs without problems.
As the “nasty” person who questioned your squat on twitter I feel the need to comment here.
My comment was not meant to put you down or be nasty and mean. I feel like I see myself 5 years ago in you and that’s why I chose to ask. I used to want to be the badass who could outlift anyone and made the posts to prove it, only I’m sure I wasn’t fooling anyone. I worked my ass off both in the gym, in the kitchen and most importantly in my head to get to the point where I can be blatantly honest about my lifts and my struggles.
I thank you for admitting they were half squats, but parallel is not a half squat. Half squat or parallel, regardless I still have my doubts that you did 185 for reps, but that is neither here nor there. You’re only fooling yourself if you think people are applauding your hard work, it’s a thin veiled coverup for the truth and no one is buying it. Being honest, open and admitting your struggles and triumphs is what people want to see. No one is roses, sunshine and constant prs. I think you’ll be surprised at the support you get when you decide to be honest.
I’m not a hater, only someone who has been there done that and only wants you to be a good role model for those struggling themselves.
Becca, I did not address you as the nasty person. I didn’t even think of you while writing this post.
And I agree, being honest is what people want to see. That’s why I never lie.
Hey girl! Hang in there…you are totally on the right track. We are doing a sermon series at church “Who Do You Think You Are?” based on Ephesians and it is ALL about finding your identity in Christ. It has been hugely helpful for me when I get discouraged or when others are getting me down. I remind myself that my bad day or someone’s comments do not define me. Jesus died for me and that’s who I am.
http://marshill.com/campaigns/who-do-you-think-you-are
Thanks sweetie!
Sometimes when people’s comments come off as negative it’s really they are just curious and would like to understand more how you achieved your goals, etc. Maybe if you just explained how you achieved your PR and the process you took to get where you are now they would understand more. Also it could be concern for your well-being and they just want to make sure you are doing things correctly, etc. It doens’t have to be negative….treat it as a positive that people care!
I’m sorry, but it’s hard to take things in a positive light when I’m being called a liar. It’s really hard to see that as a positive comment.
Anyways, I have been lifting weights with a trainer; therefore, I am doing things correctly and no one needs to be concerned.
Ugh I’ve noticed a lot of negativity too and I just don’t understand it. I don’t understand why people take time out of their days to make someone they probably don’t even know feel bad. So sorry you had to go through this and I say just keep on truckin’ sister. You’re awesome and you’ve inspired so many, don’t let the sour ones get to you!
Thanks, babe. You inspire me on a daily basis. I love you.
Meg, I can only speak for myself, but I think many people are simply concerned. The impression you are giving, which you know to be untrue, could harm a lot of people. Girls WILL try to squat 185 because they will think if someone as tiny and obviously malnourished as you can do it, they can as well. The very competitive people in this part of the blog world will feel “less than” when they see you squatting what seems to be at least 2x your bodyweight when they have worked for two years to squat 1x bodyweight.
The simple fact is this. For your approximated weight, squatting 185 just below parallel (that’s where powerlifters squat to!) would give you a 1 rep max of 215 which would be a world record. That is why people are doubting you.
Sable, I’m very hurt by your comment.
I’m not sure why I can’t celebrate my success when it is in fact true. If I knew it would have caused such drama I would have definitely filmed it, but my trainer just threw on an extra 20 lbs. from the prior week’s squat and I banged out 6 reps. It wasn’t anticipated, so we didn’t film it. We don’t film any of my workouts for that matter.
I see that you’re concerned for others whether they want to go lift a weight they may be incapable of lifting or for those who may feel “less than” if they are trying hard and cannot squat that amount of weight. Well, you know what? I try hard too which is why I announced my very true success. I just don’t know why I would lie about something like this. I don’t like about anything. I’ve seen other bloggers post the weight they’ve squatted, so I’m not sure why my particular PR caused such rage and not theirs? Aren’t their profiles on bodybuilding.com that state the weight lifters lift as well? How come others are allowed to voice their success and not me?
And, you can stop calling me malnourished. That for a fact is untrue.
There is a general progression in terms of weightlifting, and for a lifter who has been working out for as long as you have, a 20lb PR in a week is just not feasible. You claiming this incredible lift – which, as I said, would be a world record – it’s a world record because it’s so difficult to do; it’s not something a recreational lifter will be able to achieve as quickly as you say you did – makes others feel bad about themselves. It makes them feel like they’re not working hard enough, eating right enough – when in reality NO ONE with an equivilant amount of lifting experience should be able to attain a 20lb PR in one single solitary week.
If you did squat 185 easily for 6 reps, why not do it again even just for 1 rep to film & prove it to all of us? Like I say it is a world record. If I was squatting or deadliftng and Max or a friend or a trainer at the gym saw me do it, they’d insist on getting video evidence.
This. THIS. Such a perfect response. This girl is not breaking world records. LOL.
This is wonderfully stated and encompasses the concern of many people. Thank you Sable.
Meg, the reason your PR caused such drama is because it converts to a world record.
It’s the equivalent of someone posting saying they just swam a 46:34 100 yard (short course) butterfly but provided no witnesses and no video to prove it. To a lot of people, that would be extremely offensive to claim with no proof. Why? Because for a women, a 46:34 100 yard (short course) butterfly converts to a 51:61 100 meter (long course) butterfly. Dana Volmer holds the world record 100 meter long course butterfly record with a 55:98. So basically, the original butterfly claim is a potential world record. That person is basically claiming a world record.
I’m frustrated and other people are frustrated because your 6 squats at 185 convert to a world record. And people want to see proof (aka, video) that the potential world record actually happened.
Film it next time. I’m sure you’ll be squatting it (and possibly even more) again. Heck, even more impressive than 6 reps at 185 would be 6 reps at 195. Or at the minimum clarify is the 185 is done on the smith machine or includes your own body weight (if it does). Because claiming a potential world record is unfair to those that hold the record and/or those that specifically train for that event.
Exactly. This is exactly what I am trying to express. It’s like claiming a sub-3 marathon that no one saw and no one other than you recorded – but in fact it is actually more offensive and divisive simply because only a tiny handful of women your size have even approached a 215 one-rep max, which again your 185×6 would convert to.
Thank you Sable! I don’t think I’m being mean by pointing this out and I don’t think you are trying to be mean with this point either.
World records have nothing to do with calling Meg “Chicken Legs”, commenting on her diet, or bullying her. I really don’t care about your weight or diet or appearance. Just lifting numbers. I’m in genuine shock and doubt you’re kind of claiming to break a world record that someone worked very, very hard for. And can you really blame me or anyone else for at least being slightly doubtful? Making that kind of claim (that you’re stronger than a world record holder) is shocking since you are a complete no-name in the lifting world. That claim without proof and steroid/drug testing (I highly doubt you’re doping but it is standard protocol for any athletic record being broken) isn’t morally right and offensive to those of us who lift.
Keep your head high. I know I, and many others, are proud of your accomplishments & you should shout them from a roof top. Sometimes we need to put other peoples’ opinions behind us. It is difficult, but for our own sanity, we need to focus on our positives & not THEIR negativity.
Keep truckin’ & I think you deserve many #HFF this week…
Hey girl!
I’ve been reading your blog for a while and I think you’re an incredibly strong girlie! I’m your size as well – prettty tiny and while I don’t lift nearly as heavy as you do, I am much stronger than I look and it often surprises people! I don’t doubt for a second that you were able to get that PR. Keep being you and celebrating your strength because your beautiful and inspiring – and in the end there is only One person’s opinion that truly matters!
xo
Ok I need to chime in here. This is all getting ridiculous. There are so many other more important things in the world to care about than whether or not Meg lied about her lifting. In the scheme of things–it really doesn’t matter. Meg–it is obvious you try hard at the gym and even though your are struggling at times–you are striving to get healthy–though it can be difficult. I think everyone needs to just take a step back, breathe and focus on their own goals.
Also–there are so many other things out there it the world that need attention. Think about Tara who is trying to recover from her horrible accident. I’m not taking sides-but I’m just hoping people can step away from the computer for a bit and start focusing on what’s actually important in life–not how much weight someone lifted.
Also–this may have started as concern for honesty in the blogosphere and being responsible to impressionable readers–but right now it’s becoming bullying.
Some people are just nasty. Clearly they are unhappy with themselves and whoever said that probably couldn’t squat 10lbs!
Don’t let them get you down beautiful girl! Keep rocking it because you are such an inspiration to so many people!!
I don’t think you would go to all this trouble to cover up a lie. 185 for six reps at just below parallel is freaking INCREDIBLE.
I think for next time, now that you’ve seen the crazy backlash this caused, a video will silence the haters. I am new to lifting (about a year) and have been working toward a goal 1 rep max of 170, so to see a blogger I read busting out six at even higher than that, would be inspiring. Please please please take vid for next time!! And shut the nasties up!
Wow, people really need to stop hating. If you don’t like what you see or read, then why do you waste your time on her page people?
Clearly, these people are jealous of all of your hard work and success and nothing to do but to put people down and bully them. Don’t worry about the haters, Meg – You are an inspiration and a role model to so many girls out there. You rock!
Aww it totally made me sad to read all this:(…it seems WHATEVER we do in life somebody has to be negative about it. This is not okay! We should be celebrating each other.
The people who have been hurtful towards you, and your athletic goals & accomplishments are jealous. OBVIOUSLY. And insecure within themselves.
Don’t let anyone bring you down<3<3<3.
Xxx
Meg, I have been gone awhile, so I just saw the news about your squat PR. THAT IS SO FREAKING AMAZING. Like for reals, so proud of you girl. You should seriously consider entering competitions. 185 is just about the RECORD for your weight class. Have you thought about it given how much you have progressed during this time? I would love to know your answer. Lifting comps are so fun—and with strength like that you gotta show the world!!! Congrats!!!
All I can say is that this is why I video my lifts-so people won’t say I’m lying! Try not to let the negativity bring you down!
It’s so true that by putting ourselves out there n the social media world we are subjecting ourself to judgement and criticism. After a while though, I think it gets easier to just ignore and move on from. You are SO strong girl (both mentally and physically), never let anyone tell you otherwise, especially virtually.
Meg that’s awful. I agree with the other commenters that anyone who makes comments like that is jealous or not in a good place themself. And what better way to work through it than pray for them as well. It helps both you and them heal and detaches you from their opinion. You’re awesome and we al love you lots xx
You claim you’re not lying, which makes this even funnier – you are fooling yourself. BAWKKKKKK (that’s a chicken noise).
Keep your chin up. People that are negative usually don’t like themselves and deflect that onto others. I find you inspirational. Thanks for encouraging others through your blog.
Hi meg, I’ve been a long-time reader of your blog but I have never commented here before. Your journey is extremely aspiring. It is so obvious and beautiful to see the way that you have grown in the past year or so (and more, I’m sure!). It absolutely saddens me that you have felt the need to respond to such negativity but some bloggers. Obviously these people feel a sense of deep-seeded insecurity within themselves and thus they feel the need to project their anger/sadness/whatever onto someone they “idolize” as their ideal person. They do not realize that you, like them, are also a person with feelings. That you, like everyone else, struggle with life. That is normal. What is not normal, however, is to feel the need to push your own resentment onto others in order to inflict pain. You are a strong person and I’m sure you will not let this get you down. Just don’t respond anymore. You know yourself and you should not feel the need to “fuel” their anger. Everything passes!
Haters gonna hate. I’m happy for your accomplishments, and more importantly, I’m happy for your happiness. Don’t let anyone take that away from you.
oh girl, we are right there with ya. We have been getting some nasty things said about us and how we eat and how we workout. it drives us crazy and does get us a little down, which we hate that. we hate that others negativity can bring us down!! sorry to hear that it is happening to you dear friend!! we truly wish people just did not say anything, ugh it is so frustrating why people think they can just do this to us. we could talk about this for hours, but just know we have your back!!!! we will stand by you!!! we love you and admire you
HUGS
thanks sisters! I love you so much
http://squatlikealady.blogspot.ca/2013/02/enough.html?showComment=1361928524163#c2658898355929795390
This girl says it all. Stop lying to yourself and others and creating an unhealthy atmosphere. Get out of the protective bubble you’ve sheathed yourself in and face reality. Just because you have a “trainer” doesn’t mean you’re doing things right.
Oh sis!! You have so many people who love and admire you. Don’t stress over these nay-sayers. I don’t know how anyone could say something about you! I am always here for you! We must talk SOON!
I am not an expert on lifting or anything like that but I’m glad you’re enjoying what you’re doing. Its stupid to call someone a liar because even if they are lying they are the one that has to live with it and have it on their conscience. I for one feel extremely guilty when I am unauthentic with people in my life. If what a everyone is saying about you beating the world record than that is awesome! You should definitely consider contacting Guinness or whoever records weight lifting records! Let us know what happens with all that!
girl, don’t even. I can’t imagine people saying things like that to ANYONE. I can tell you are a super positive person & an optimist. I am too. I think that’s why it’s SOOO heart breaking when people say things that imply you are presenting yourself in a false manner, or say things that are just plain mean. I love the internet because of the awesome communities it can create, but I also hate the veil of anonymity that it allows. I like to think people are better than this, but I have come to realize that some people really are just jealous of success. If they don’t have their lives together, then anyone who does is a reminder of their own failures and shortcomings.
Just focus on you and the AMAZING community you have through this blog. You are filled with SO much love, and you are loved so much by your readers, friends, & family! Your successes deserve to be celebrated. Those who succeed will often be mocked by those who are too scared to change their lives for the better. So keep on keepin’ on!
I am so proud of you, Meg. Not only for everything that you’ve accomplished over the past year, but for having the strength and confidence to stand up for yourself. You are beautiful, inside and out, and the negativity you dealt with was uncalled for. You’re doing AMAZING things and, more importantly, you’re happy- that’s all that matters!
Sending you lots of love and positive energy this week! <3
That’s horrible, Meg! I can’t believe anyone would say stupid stuff like that. You’re AMAZING. And you’re an inspiration to so many people! Don’t let a few negative people get you down!
I would like to offer you my opinion that you do not give in to the pressure to film your squats. It’s your workout and your business and you don’t owe anyone proof of anything. That’s not how the Internet works. Further, telling someone you’ll stop trashing them as soon as they do x, y and z is seriously creepy. Post film only if you want, Meg, but don’t do it for them.
I’m sorry you are dealing with this, Meg. I wish I could just tell you to just ignore the naysayers and keep truckin’ on, but I know that is much easier said than done. What matters is your health and happiness – do what you need to do to stay in a good place. Your blog is awesome and usually one of the ones I read first. Your positivity motivates me, regardless of how much you do or don’t squat, press, lift, etc etc (those things are cool too though).
Also, as a reminder to people posting responses, it is generally considered rude to comment negatively on other people’s bodies. Please watch your manners, even when hidden behind your computer screen.
I just wanna tell you congrats on your pr! I came across ur blog about two months ago and admire ur hardwork and accomplishments. Ur blog is motivating and real.. When I read ur posts about intuitive eating I can completely relate and want to thank you for ur blog. Please keep doing what ur doing, u should be proud of all pr’s and post them as ur an inspiration. Sorry to hear u have to deal with such negative people don’t let them get to you.
You should go check out Sable’s recent post entitled “Enough” and the comments over at her blog Squat like a Lady. You’ll probably be able to relate! It would also be really nice to see a video of your progress so others lifters can see how amazing you are.
Meg,
You are amazing! So glad you addressed the negativity. You are such a positive role model to me. You don’t just focus on your own accomplishments. You celebrate those of other girls & women! I admire you so much for that! Keep doing what you love! Way to go on your squats!
x o x o,
Jen @summergrl375
Good on you for addressing it! And, good on you for praying about it too! I think that is so important when something like that happens. You handled it with grace girl!
Hey Meg,
I think you’re goals and accomplishments are inspiring! Most of the time when some one is calling you out in a negative way it stems from envy, ego, and lack of their self-confidence. Don’t let them bring you down girl, rock the squats! haha
MEG you are BEAUTIFUL and don’t let anyones own issues bring you down. It’s not YOU – they are dealing with something & that’s how it comes out sometimes. Just close your eyes and send them love – you are coming from a great place <3 love you!!
Oh my goodness – I can’t believe that sharing your accomplishment caused rage in others. You are such a sweet person and people who are mean will just be mean. xoxo
Aww I am sorry you encountered a jerk. I know people say by blogging and putting your life out there you are subject to judgement but no one deserves to be ripped on by someone they don’t even know.
I too have dealt with negative comments in the past and it’s frustrating because you wonder how people could ever/ ever want to say things like that. One time, I had a girl constantly post on my blog about how fat/overweight I was and constantly bashing my arms or any sort of “happy” posts I wrote…mind you it was in a picture where I just completed my first half marathon…one of the proudest moments I ever had. I appreciate opinions and welcome that but plain nasty comments are uncalled for. Good for you for staying true to you
Keep your head up girly!
Yo, screw the haters. SCREW ‘EM. Their words are just meant to bring you down so they can lift themselves up. You lift people up EVERY day with your positive attitude, your kindness, and your love. If they want to push those happy things aside and instead lift themselves up with negativity, that is their choice but they shouldn’t make you a part of it. Love you girl. You’re so strong. Physically and mentally.
Wow. I had no idea this was going on. Pretty much makes me nauseous. Thank you for sharing your heart, your insight, your accomplishments, your journey with everyone via your blog. And you are the bigger person here. I love love LOVE the quote that you opened this post with! I know this must be so hard for you, but know that you have an awful lot of people on your side. I don’t get this, I would think that people have better things to do! Stay strong and keep looking up! <3
Hey Meg. i have been reading your blog for awhile, and i think your great. I think the negative comments people are writing on here are extremely childish and its nice to see that you are not sinking to their level. Also, as far as people saying you should video tape it, dont even stoop to that level, you have nothing to prove to anybody but yourself. From reading your blog for awhile its easy to see you have a great family, and great friends and people who do read your blog that support you.
Honestly its funny to me that the people who are writing the negative comments cared so much to read your blog in the first place. If they dont believe what you say or feel need to be negative towards you…they should really just read another blog other then yours. Keeps being positive and being who you are. You have nothing to prove to those people. Keep up the good work!
Hey girl!
I really appreciate this comment. I sure knew I wish who you were because I would give you a BIG MEG HUG! People really enjoy those FYI
lol
Anyways, thanks for the support and love. Also, thanks for the tip about the video. I was actually going to post one. Maybe I’ll post one one day because I AM PROUD of the weight I squat, but I wouldn’t post it to prove something to rude people.
We shall see, I suppose.
Love ya
I would totally accept one of your “meg hugs”. However I live in Pennsylvania, Far from Canada. But if I ever do to come Canada I will definitely let you know;) Keep your head up! There’s always going to be negativity in life unfortunately. But I think you handle it very maturely!!
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